sorry,i can’t make a good negotiator

friends 4ever

this evening i was texted by someone i knew. it marvelled me since i never thot he wud reach me again after we did settle everything long ago. (i left my phone num to him due to some business matter regarding English Nyte project. he’s early 30’s i guess )

what makes it a matter is that a fren of mine, she likes this fella. so she asked me a favor. (understood yeah)

da game started. i played words and wutever needed to get him interested to my fren.

well a statement is done here. i did it for her. i tried so hard to help her having him cuz she’s my fren

but things always go unexpectedly. again, i was the one who had been trapped. gosh~~ how come he asked me for a date.

hellow guy! i replied u cuz she asked me to do so. otherwise i wont at all!

so i ended up telling him a lie – i alredy hve one and goin 2 get engaged end of this year.haha.

to mke the story short, i didnt reply him and off my fon for several hours.

-lost contact-

(my fren too, she cnt get him)

haishh..never meant to make things complicated. again, i fail to be a good negotiator to a fren

i experienced this few tymes even since i was in school. so nxt tyme gurls, pls dont ask me to be the negotiator. if u rly like someone,u better do urself or else ask others to make it for you.. cuz u noe how guys are… randomly keep flirting anyone anybody

dearie frens,

u need to know never in my life i wud betray u esp when it comes to matter of relationship, guys, love or wutsoever. stop quibbling about me betraying u cuz im not at fault.its nothing more than helping u gurls.. (perhaps i better evade the favour from the very beginning)

im sick of we getting into fight juz bcoz of these lil matters. its extremely chickenfeed. dun take it into account. frenship comes 1st =)

go gurls. u got my words.

juz luve u.hugs n kisses 4 dearie frens ~


this iS 4 u gurlS.. lebiuu

this iS 4 u gurlS.. lebiuu


17 responses to this post.

  1. so ur back in malacca?

  2. Posted by fantasia on December 12, 2008 at 18:12

    etikus endang..spe pulok kali ni minat ke mu? ade cerita bru pulok ke?? tu a mu..suroh nikoh cpt2 x moh.hakhakhak

  3. u guing to get engage? wowweeee!!! i had a silent treatment once because of some boy. ahaha. u knew it. :P. that’s so remind me not to mess wif wateva ‘used-to’ or ‘belong’ to my friends!!

  4. i read this post again. “guy keep flirting anyone anybody”. i pick ur side. infact they are!! they always take it in a wrong way when we treat them nicely as A FREN.and at last we are in troublesome. sshhesss im so sick of it. seriyesly!

  5. Posted by tomyamfan on December 13, 2008 at 07:27

    hanzahar : not yet. stil at home

  6. Posted by tomyamfan on December 13, 2008 at 07:33

    pinkysplash9 : yepps.i knew it well.haha. that’s y im into thought sometimes guys must b left behind in certain cases. frenship must come first coz i know guys often mess up evrything.

    p/S: getting engaged – its nothing but a lie. kekeke!

  7. Posted by tomyamfan on December 13, 2008 at 07:38

    fantasia : hahha.nget mu dhira. klu gtu jum ar kte nikoh dua :p

  8. haha. i really hope u get engaged is something real. at least we got brand new story for upcuming sem. haha.

  9. Posted by tomyamfan on December 13, 2008 at 12:36

    i,too,hope its sumthing real.hahaha.however it is not for sure.
    wut bout other gurls ha? hope 2 hear frm ama or mek wanie or u perhaps? :)

  10. how bout our fren whom her bf guing oversea? perharps her?
    me? na na na for sure!

  11. Posted by tomyamfan on December 14, 2008 at 00:04

    haha.who noes? juz wait n see who’s goin 2 b da 1st 2 show her ring off :p

  12. Posted by wan hana on December 18, 2008 at 17:53

    aku pnh kna.hehe. tp aku tau bkn slh mg.yes,guys keep flirting anyone anybody! eh,lening mg ngn sape hah? org kl tu lg ke?

  13. Posted by tomyamfan on December 18, 2008 at 23:09

    org kl mane ni??? lalalala
    org yg da pergi usah disebut2 lagi
    terasa diri disakiti
    hati dingin menangis lagi…
    cukup utk kutangisi

    hahaha :P

  14. Posted by kay on June 6, 2009 at 08:57

    again,i’m stopping by at your blogpage…
    looking at most viewed topic, dis topic attracts me…
    why? bcos “guy keep flirting anyone anybody” word…
    bit unfair, SOME women do the same what…
    mybe it’s b’cos they don’t find their truly soulmate yet,
    the one dat have been decided by God…

    p/s:juz an opinion

  15. Posted by tomyamfan on June 10, 2009 at 23:26


    thx fer leaving your thought..
    i didnt put the blame totally on men
    just that sometimes i felt so because i used to be in hot water, hving conflicts due to men
    and im sick of it.

    nway, both men & women do flirt. no offense :)

  16. Posted by kay on June 12, 2009 at 18:45

    ooo cenggitu…
    now i can relate it with ‘a tale of a journey in vain’

    best of luck to u

  17. Posted by tomyamfan on June 13, 2009 at 14:36


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