fiRst Law of LivinG

Watching a sinetron – indonesian drama series, “Mutiara” on tv9, it leaves something tat always playin on my mind. considering how hard Tiara has to live her life as an orphan. and wut makes it touching, people and whole surroundings treat her abysmally yet still, she rises wit grace..

i noe tis kind of plot is rather common but im a little overawed by the issues brought up since it somehow reflects most of real life events. a line from the movie Batman: the Dark Knight“the night is darkest before dawn” is how i describe those trying times Tiara has to go trough. yeah..being separated from her beloved twin, and in latest episode i watched this evening, she was kidnapped by her bestfriend’s family for some kind of prostitution purpose i guess…

but she keeps hiding her tears..

wahhh.. probably one of the greatest inspiration i will ever have in my life comes from her character. she has undergone a life full of unfortunates but like an expensive brandy watch, she keeps on ticking,with a smile..

i too, used to be in great misery for long..instead of hiding and crying, i slowly stand up and fight off those sorrow.. (cuz i must). yes,its a must to wake up!!

all i can say, life will be full of challenges for all …we’re supposed to struggle more because through struggling we learn who we are and how to be closer to The Almighty. we have no right to blame fate for any misfortune. we cant always control what happens to us, but we can always control how we react to what happens to us..(get it?)

easier said than done. i know.. but we must always try to do. remember life’s pleasures and blessings gifted to us. on the brighter side, do count other blessings sometimes overlooked by most; good health, knowledge and wisdom, food on the table, roof over heads.. be thankful then..

Allah the Almighty,He doesnt shoot a machine gun full of troubles our way to get glory..keep struggling keep struggling.. never give life up!

He loves us. faith in Him is our pillar so we never lose hope. i believe this..yes,i do believe in this..

first law of living –

if u dont love yourself, who’s going to love wut u reject?



15 responses to this post.

  1. i once been on the whole of d moment im so hopeless,gave up,no spirit at all.however, i know i shuld held my head up high,be on my feet again so i fight for i am smilling to d world again.thank God for this opportunity.

  2. i remember this,as the saying goes : no 1 can go back n make a brand new start. any1 can start from new n make a brand new end. God didnt promise days w/o pain, laughter w/o sorrow, sun w/o rain but he did promise strength 4 d day, comfort 4 d tears n light 4 d day. when sumnthing happen, gud or bad, consider wat it means. there’s a purpose 2 life event, 2 teach 2 laugh more or 2 cry 2 hard.

  3. et read my facebook statues heee…

  4. 21 is the most sad year for hanzahar…and it’s 21…what the heck…

    ok ok…21st birthday was the worst day of my life…until today…can’t tell about the future hehe

  5. Posted by tomyamfan on December 6, 2008 at 00:20

    pinkysplash9: yess..ur words r so meaningful.i assume it as kind of support.thx 4 ur support since im now sorta down idea 4 tat but yes,i lose my strentgh in sudden. tq tq 4 da words.its duly written

  6. Posted by tomyamfan on December 6, 2008 at 00:25

    hanzahar: i read ur status.n two comments left too.hehe.

    21st, y is it the worst? mine i shud say,2008 is da worst.cnt wait 4 08 to end.huh

  7. Posted by fantasia on December 6, 2008 at 09:51

    etiey,r you okay? is there anything you didnt tell me huh?

  8. Posted by tomyamfan on December 6, 2008 at 10:58

    xdop2..sume ok je
    bese r..kdg2 ak down huu
    wory not dear,,im okies :)

  9. u must b uncivillized heheheh mcm faham je…

    yea I know malaysia…singapore’s currency is 2x the RM must’ve explain something right?

  10. Posted by tomyamfan on December 7, 2008 at 22:08


  11. Posted by tomyamfan on December 7, 2008 at 22:13

    well guy,as i told u msia sometymes is worse than it looks like..
    tp mlaysia ttp boleh
    hehe =p

  12. Posted by eqah lawo on December 11, 2008 at 01:21

    maaf kubertanya…
    hanzahar tu saper?
    aku kenal x tiey?

  13. Posted by tomyamfan on December 11, 2008 at 21:21

    mu x knal ye
    he’s sngaporean
    nk knal ke?
    buley2 =p

  14. Posted by eqah lawo on December 15, 2008 at 00:46

    bakpe jauh ngat kwn mg?
    ish ish ish

  15. Posted by tomyamfan on December 15, 2008 at 07:28

    dunia tnpa sempadan qah…

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