im a stay-at-home girl for several weeks since the holidays started last month. so yeah,im about into doing house chores, plus it wud be an occasion end of this year. i surely must prepare many things for that. but extra work always shows up. as supposedly wen i begin staying at home, its a bonus for those kids – my nephews n niece. their aunt is here,ready to look after them.. and here i am, a so-called ummi =p
since its now almost 6 in the morning,and they are all still sleeping so i can write in peace..huhu
well first, its rather a simple-minded approach to the decision which kids i got to pay more attention to- as those three are all hyperactive..and i then come up wit an easy way – to just treat them equally.and God noes how they cause mayhem, in every minute evry second i shud say..hurmm anyway as bad and as difficult as this moment has been, it will always be a good moment indeed. having them around though with full hands yet i sumhow come into a thought. its a gift..
bcoz of the increased time i spend with my nephews and my niece, i manage 2 know them well, understand wut they need and too, i cud look after them more or less as good as their mom could. how gud? i dunno but who cares then? heh.. how naughty they are,still, there are certain moment where u think its worth to have them – esp the times when those kids just come over and hug you for no reason =)
etceli wut im trying to say is that this kind of experience – looking after kids who r not yours- it helps me to unlock 1 of the world’s great secrets. women are good at looking after children becoz they juz do it. its not only bcoz of mother’s instinct but also bcoz women put in the time and attention required to become good at the job. and most important thing, we do it by heart..X-inside.. =p
so think the nxt tyme u look after children.do u hve this kind of X-inside? Or else u juz do it as others do.. (^_^)
ermm tomorrow morning i seem 2 face them again,,its kinda difficult to deal wit them, but i noe its a blessing. i’ve my good and bad days but at least i can say “i saw them grow up and was there for them.”
juz luv u bdk kecikS! =)